Change

You can’t guilt a caterpillar into becoming a butterfly. Transformation is a process that takes time, patience, and the right conditions—not pressure, shame, or fear. Just as a caterpillar must retreat into a cocoon and undergo unseen change before it can emerge with wings, people also need space, grace, and encouragement to grow. Trying to rush or force someone’s healing or development through guilt only stunts the process and damages trust. Real change comes from within, not from the weight of someone else’s expectations.